Archive for the ‘Child Support’ Category
Monday, January 30th, 2012
A “no court” divorce, also called “collaborative divorce” is a way for divorcing spouses to resolve all the major issues of divorce outside of court. This gives control over important matters like property division, child custody, and support to the spouses rather than to a judge. It also costs a fraction of what both of spouses would spend fighting over these issues in court. Here is how a “no court” divorce generally works. (more…)
Posted in Alimony / Spousal Support, Child Support, Collaborative Law & Mediation, Custody & Visitation, Divorce, Property: Value & Division
Friday, October 28th, 2011
If you have a divorce or other family law case pending in a San Diego court, there’s a difference between getting a temporary order and an emergency order. Temporary orders are common, and these are usually orders that a court makes after a hearing with all parties. But sometimes one side may ask the court to make an order immediately—without notifying the other side and without a hearing. This is called an “ex parte” order, and they’re not granted in the typical divorce or child custody case. (more…)
Posted in Alimony / Spousal Support, Child Support, Custody & Visitation, Divorce
Monday, June 20th, 2011
Divorce can be long and expensive if spouses battle in court over child custody, the division of their belongings, and/or child support and spousal support (alimony). In many cases, a neutral, experienced divorce mediator can help the spouses reach an agreement on some or all of these issues, reducing the time and expense of court proceedings. In a typical mediation proceeding, each party consults separately with the mediator, and then the mediator brings both spouses together to craft a compromise agreement, which the spouses then sign. (more…)
Posted in Alimony / Spousal Support, Child Support, Collaborative Law & Mediation, Custody & Visitation, Divorce, Property: Value & Division
Friday, May 20th, 2011
When a couple divorces, one spouse is often required to pay money to support the children (child support) and/or the other spouse (spousal support or alimony). Unfortunately, getting an award for support and collecting it are two different things entirely.
It’s up to the spouse receiving the money to make sure that the money is being paid and to take action if it is not. Courts in California will not step in automatically. If your ex-spouse isn’t paying, then you or your attorney can ask the court to deduct support payments from their paycheck; this is called “wage garnishment.” (more…)
Posted in Alimony / Spousal Support, Child Support, Divorce
Wednesday, November 24th, 2010
It was recently reported that former San Diego Chargers cornerback Antonio Cromartie was $25,000 behind on child support obligations. One of the mothers of Cromartie’s children filed a document with the court that prevented him from selling any property without first being current on his child support. Cromartie has since caught up on his obligations after being traded to the New York Jets and receiving a $500,000 advance on his contract.
It is now more expensive than ever to raise a child. The cost of raising a child from birth to the age of 18 is estimated to range from $180,000-$250,000. As a child gets older, the expenses rise. Older children are often involved in extra-curricular activities like music, dance, or sports. If parents wish to pay for a child’s college education, this can easily add another $50,000 in expenses. (more…)
Posted in Child Support
Friday, September 10th, 2010
Why Establishing Paternity is Important
Mutually choosing to have and co-parent a child as an unmarried couple is a choice many people are happily making. However, even is cases where a couple agrees to co-parent, paternity may play an important role in ensuring that the actual goal of co-parenting is achieved with ease, respect, and success. Failure to establish paternity could result in a father being denied a right to custody or visitation; or, in the alternative, deny a mother the right to receive child support.
The “Voluntary Declaration of Paternity” in California
Under California law when both unmarried parents sign a “Voluntary Declaration of Paternity” they are declaring that they are the legal parents of the child. Once a “Voluntary Declaration of Paternity” is signed each parent has an equal responsibility to support the child and an equal right to custody of the child. A declaration of paternity not only ensures for each parent rights to custody, visitation, and support, but it also protects the rights of the child to obtain benefits through the father including social security, military, or survivors benefits. However, a “Voluntary Declaration of Paternity” may be difficult or impossible to reverse, so it is important that it not be signed if there is a dispute over paternity.
The Paternity Lawsuit
If the parents of a child born outside of marriage do not sign a “Voluntary Declaration of Paternity,” or if parentage is in dispute, the parent who wants a confirmation of identity can file a court action. Ultimately, the court can order that all parties – parents and child – submit to a DNA blood test to resolve the issue.
The Complexity of Paternity Cases in California
The Case of Tate v. Wilburn
The California case of Tate v. Wilburn is interesting because it illustrates the far reaching effects of failing to follow certain procedures when challenging a claim of paternity. In the Tate v. Wilburn case, the California Court of Appeal upheld a decision that ordered a homeless man to pay child support from his inheritance. In the Tate case, Hari Wilburn was named as the father of Cathy Tate’s daughter, Alexis, in a court proceeding during which Wilburn was ordered to pay child support. Seventeen years later, Cathy Tate asked the Court to take money that Hari Wilburn was going to receive through an inheritance to pay the court ordered child support. The court granted Cathy Tate’s request despite the fact that DNA test excluded Hari Wilburn as being Alexis’ father and had never established a father child relationship. The court held that under California Family Code 7551, Wilburn waited too long to challenge the court’s finding of paternity.
Clearly, the facts of the Tate case are unique. However, the facts of any paternity case where the parents fail to sign a “Voluntary Declaration of Paternity” can be just as unique and complicated. It is important to know what your rights are even when both parents of a child are in full agreement about co-parenting outside of marriage. Also, if you are a parent who wants to establish paternity there are complex steps that need to be undertaken. The experienced family law attorneys at San Diego Law Firm can help you understand your rights and ensure that you and your child are protected legally and financially. Please call us at (619) 794-0243 for a consultation.
Posted in Child Support, Custody & Visitation, Paternity
Friday, March 12th, 2010
Divorces in San Diego and throughout California can’t become final until at least six months after a spouse is served with divorce papers. Usually, a divorce will take longer than this minimum waiting period. Many steps need to be taken during the transition to protect your family, business, and finances.
For divorcing spouses who have kids, a Divorcesupport.com blog provides advice on how to best meet your children’s emotional needs during a divorce. It cautions that you shouldn’t be the only one providing your kids with emotional support. When family and friends aren’t enough, then look for counseling options. You’re also encouraged to get emotional support for yourself, such as through a local support group, family, and friends. (more…)
Posted in Alimony / Spousal Support, Asset Protection, Child Support, Custody & Visitation, Divorce, Property: Value & Division, Restraining Orders
Tuesday, February 9th, 2010
Hard financial times are still troubling many parents in California who have been laid off from their jobs. The Associated Press reports in the Los Angeles Times that nationally, new jobless claims have recently risen higher than expected, although California has fortunately seen some decreases. For many of these parents who owe child support, the question is, when unemployment benefits end, will that parent be excused from paying the support until a new job is found? On the other hand, if the paying parent is lucky enough to be in a better financial position than when the child support was first ordered, will that parent automatically pay more now to support his or her child? The short answer in either case is no, and will continue to be no, unless and until one of the parent’s gets the child support order modified in family court. (more…)
Posted in Child Support, Custody & Visitation, Divorce
Tuesday, December 8th, 2009
California’s paternity laws provide a process for determining who a child’s legal father is. By establishing fatherhood, many other important questions can be answered. For example, will a child have a right to his or her father’s medical records to help identify inherited health problems and risks, will the child be able to benefit from his or her father’s health or life insurance coverage, have rights to social security or veterans benefits, and have the right to be financially supported and receive an inheritance from both parents? (more…)
Posted in Child Support, Custody & Visitation, Paternity
Wednesday, November 18th, 2009
Divorce at the click of a mouse – it may be coming soon to Brazil, according to an AP article published in the San Diego Union Tribune. Brazil’s Senate recently approved legislation allowing online divorces under certain circumstances, and the bill awaits a vote from the House of Representatives. If the bill becomes law, not everyone would be eligible for quick internet divorces, since it’s meant for those with less complicated and consensual divorces. The idea has not come to California yet, but if it did, how well would it work?
As part of Brazil’s online divorce, you’d be able to divide assets. While this seems like it should be simple enough, many of the most difficult issues in a divorce come up when figuring out who gets what. For example, under California law, do you know what happens if one spouse started a business before getting married (making it separate property), and continued working in the business during the marriage? (more…)
Posted in Alimony / Spousal Support, Asset Protection, Child Support, Collaborative Law & Mediation, Community Property, Current Events, Custody & Visitation, Divorce, Property: Value & Division
|
|